@synchedharmony
"The art of making people work together in sync to live a peaceful and harmonious life."
It encourages you to go beyond your narrow perspective and consider different dimensions of thought. You can contemplate and understand scenarios that might not be feasible in an ideal case.
These things can't just be done in your mind alone, you might need to write down your thoughts and ideas. It's necessary to break down the problem and write down the pain areas of each problem segment
Then, list down the perspectives and pain areas of both the parties which provides a comprehensive view of the entire problem, making it easier to think about potential solutions.
First and foremost, consider what can be done to allow things to resolve on their own without your direct involvement. It will result in the matter resolving by itself, without unnecessary stress.
Try to understand the circumstances they might be going through that led them to behave unusually. Think that even accepting their perspectives and mindset, would their actions still be justified?
I also focus on what my perspective says after understanding everyone's viewpoints. I use the multidimensional thinking techniques listed above to develop my perspective of the situation.
Approach things with a positive mindset. Your goal isn't to make things worse but to improve the overall situation. It involves thinking beyond perspectives and considering long-term impacts.
Finally, it's possible to arrive at a conclusion that might not be in everyone's immediate favor. Think about how to convince them individually that your decision can be beneficial in the long term.
Here's a bonus, When you're unable to comprehend something on your own, discuss it with a trustworthy individual. You can have an open conversation with them, and they can offer an unbiased opinion.
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